Do you want to know the secret to creating MASSIVE success in your business and in your life?  Here is it….

How we perceive things and what we do with it makes all the difference. The ‘facts’ may be the same but how we “see” the situation can vary greatly from person to person.  And the good thing is that we choose our own perceptions – it IS a CHOICE.

Perception is EVERYTHING.  We see what we WANT to see.  Because of this, our failure or success is dependent upon our mindset.  Yes, other things come into play but it’s our attitude that affects 90% of our results.

To take this a little further, watch this short video.

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So, did you see what changed?  Did you see it while you were watching or not until the end?  Either way it doesn’t really matter.  What matters is that you were looking for it and you saw it.

In your business and just life in general, what are YOU looking for?  Do you see what’s NOT working or what IS working?  Do you see the good or the bad, the positive or the negative?  Do you see your struggles as opportunities to improve or a reason to quit?  This is important because you WILL find what you’re looking for.

YOU determine your success.  You can also choose to see that as a positive or a negative but just think how powerful and liberating it is when you see the positive – YOU control your own destiny.   When you embrace that, you unlock the secret to your success!

OR maybe you didn’t see it at all even when it was pointed out to you.

If you’re in network marketing, you will come across a lot of people like this.  They will NOT see it and NEVER will.  They just won’t “get it” no matter what you do.  They are looking for the negative and that’s what they will see.  And YOU can either see THAT as a positive or a negative.  Are you going to waste your energy on those who don’t get it or focus your energy finding and helping those who do?

So, what is your perception?  Do you see your glass as half full or half empty?  And what are the positives of not everyone “getting it” and seeing the power of network marketing?  Why is that a positive thing?   I would love to hear your thoughts so please leave a comment below.  Please also share this post with your twitter and facebook friends.

To Your Success!

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Comments (15)

  1. belinda cunningham Says:

    July 22nd, 2010 at 1:09 am

    Hi Laura
    Love your bright blog here. I have been struggling with this exact issue recently, I know I can try and see all that is in my life in a positive light or a negative one, sure is hard to train myself to see the positive but it is exactly, that training. Once I say no way I am not going down that negative path I can move on.
    Belinda
    belinda cunningham ..Why and how to get started on line with a blog

    LauraPaulson Reply:
    July 22nd, 2010 at 9:53 pm

    @belinda cunningham, Hi Belinda, I think that’s something we all struggle with and it’s just part of that continuous personal development process. And that’s just it, it’s a choice and that feeling you get when you make that choice to say “No Way…” isn’t it empowering?! Make it a Great Day! Laura

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  3. MaryKay Edelen Says:

    July 22nd, 2010 at 7:43 pm

    Hj Laura,
    Thanks for a great post. I totally agree, our success or failure depends mostly on our attitude. Keeping a positive attitude is not always the easiest thing to do in network marketing. I focus on my goals and that helps to keep my attitude positive.
    Have a great day,
    MaryKay
    MaryKay Edelen ..The Power Of Tribes

    LauraPaulson Reply:
    July 22nd, 2010 at 9:55 pm

    @MaryKay Edelen, That’s exactly what you need to do -Focus on the bigger picture and the positive. Sometimes you do need to dig a little deeper to find it (the positive) but it’s there. Thanks for the comment, Laura

  4. Angela Says:

    July 22nd, 2010 at 9:40 pm

    Hi Laura! Great post! I love how you say, “are you going to waste your energy on people who don’t get it or find people who do.” I have never thought about it that way but there are some people you can talk to until your blue in the face and they will never get it. That is a lot of time and energy wasted if they never will get it. Instead focusing your energy and efforts on people who do would make so much more sense. Thanks for this awesome post!
    Angela ..A Cool Free Seo Tool For Your Blog Posts and Articles

    LauraPaulson Reply:
    July 22nd, 2010 at 9:59 pm

    @Angela, Hi Angela, I’m glad it was useful. Just remember when building your team that we’re in the sorting business not the convincing business. We’re sorting through people to find the leaders, the ones you “get it” and are ready to get to work and make it happen. Much success to you! Laura

  5. Dr. Adam Sheck Says:

    July 28th, 2010 at 10:23 pm

    Laura,
    Great post on the power of perspective. Our focus is one of the few things that we DO have control over, so it’s very powerful. I work with my clients on this ALL the time. Love the video, it gives it a fresh way of taking in the concept.
    Thanks so much,
    Adam
    Dr. Adam Sheck ..The 3 C’s of Relationship- Chemistry- Compatibility &amp Commitment

    LauraPaulson Reply:
    July 29th, 2010 at 7:30 pm

    @Dr. Adam Sheck, Hi Adam. I agree. I always say, “we can’t control what others do but we CAN control how we respond to it”. I loved your 3 C’s article. Good stuff!! All my best, Laura

  6. Carolyn Blake Says:

    August 24th, 2010 at 12:29 pm

    Hi Laura, Again and again we hear from those who have walked this road that persistence and disciplining our thoughts toward the positive will carry us through. Delightful to hear your words on this. I did watch the video and I knew the area where it changed, but couldn’t quite get it. Thank you,
    Carolyn from TSA
    Carolyn Blake ..Self Limiting Beliefs From the Dungeon

    LauraPaulson Reply:
    August 26th, 2010 at 1:56 am

    @Carolyn Blake, Hi Carolyn,

    Most definitely we all have the power – it’s a matter of making the choice.

    Thanks for commenting!

  7. Charles Allen II Says:

    September 16th, 2010 at 9:14 pm

    Laura, Tonight I’ve been blessed to read your blog that made my night better. It’s sometimes seems our work load can be overwhelming at times. However, read your post and some of the comments has open my heart to stay focus on the goal. Creating massive success is the goal with that in mind it will take massive actions. Using all of your resource it the key and working smart!
    Charles Allen II ..Internet Marketing Strategies For Your Home Based Business Opportunity

    LauraPaulson Reply:
    September 25th, 2010 at 5:42 pm

    @Charles Allen II, Hi Charles, well I am blessed that you stopped by and to connect with YOU. Have an Awesome Day!

  8. James Bennett | Success Books Says:

    May 2nd, 2011 at 5:33 pm

    Hi Laura,

    Great post and awesome quick video on perspective…

    Two things that I thought about while reading…

    1. For many people, their own perspective equals complete reality. This is difficult for most people- because it’s difficult for others to understand and find ways to look at things from another person’s viewpoint.

    2. For networkers, when you state that not everyone gets it is a good thing…. I agree. If everyone got it, then the company selling the products and services wouldn’t need networker distributors to get the word out and recruit/sell. That’s a different perspective probably from what many people think when they ask why their friend doesn’t get it…

    :-)

    Thanks for the great video-
    -James
    James Bennett | Success Books ..Twelve Pillars Jim Rohn Books

  9. Sigal Zoldan Says:

    May 6th, 2011 at 8:12 pm

    What a powerful way to show how our perception work.
    I focus on both. Sometime on what’s not working so I can improve and make changes and sometimes on what is working, enjoying it, getting excited about it and sharing it with others.

    It’s funny that I felt like something is changing as I was watching the video but couldn’t pin point it. When the top of the tree disappeared though my eye caught that. But as you said it’s besides the point.

    And I agree, no one should waist their time on the time wasters
    I will happily share this post

    :-)
    Sigal Zoldan
    Clinical Hypnotherapist & Master Results Coach

    http://blog.sigalzoldan.com
    http://AttractYourTrueLove.com
    Sigal Zoldan ..Will Your Message Market Itself Maybe If It’s Completely Naked…

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